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As Sweet as Wedding Cake

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Every woman wants perfection in her most special day, what so called wedding party. Special occasion, special stage of life, and special life partner. Everything is special and it should be as perfect as possible. But as what I have experienced so far, there will always be a jerky thing that can disturb and ruin the preparation, even my mood can be disrupted.

My cousin (has married) said before the wedding party I have to be happy, no stress, no bad mood, no depression, no dull skin, no dimples, no messy hair, blablabla… I did my best to follow her suggestion, but as I said before there will always be jerky stuff to disarray my sunny day…huft. My married friend told me about her experience on her wedding preparation, everything went bad and she had many arguments with her ex-boyfriend (now he is her husband, crystal clearly). What???! Even my relation with my lover will be ruined? Holly crap, I started to think wedding is not a good idea (no, actually I’m just kidding of course! :p). Then one of my besties (she plans to get married next year), shared a story about wedding disturber, from what I got this ‘creature’ mostly a man. May she is joking. Me? Have an affair with another man? Hey hey… my history is clear from disgusting thing like that. Then a crazy thought fly to my mind: what if the disturber is a woman???? (kyaaaaaa!!! >_<)


See? The preparation will not run smoothly. Wait, but that’s what those people think. Mine will be different. I have prepared myself to handle those shitty things, and I will never let anything disturb my special moment.

Positive thinking, think positively. It does me good. I ignore what people say as long as what they say is negative and can bring me a dark-cloudy day. Be positive and everything’s gonna be ok J

Discuss about the preparation with would be husband. It is something nice to do, trust me. I shared my idea with him and he gave the feedback, then we decide together what conclusion we want to draw. Do everything together can make us closer emotionally, I love it.


Treat yourself. Today I went to body spa center and I got amazing treatment for my body. It can refresh my body and mind. I can forget every troublesome-stuff I have to do dealing with the preparation, I get my good mood back and I am ready to take the next step!

Communication is the key point. Before the wedding, I have to live separately with my would-be-husband (don’t think conservatively, I have many things to do here and he has his there, LOL) but we always keep our communication well. Remember, it doesn’t mean I have to tell him everything I do in details and vice versa, we just do it and we know we try our best together to be in that special day.


My wedding will be held no more than two weeks, and I can show the world that my wedding preparation is doing fine until this time *winkwink. Hopefully my special day will be as perfect as we want, and after that we’ll be the most awesome couple across the universe. I’m ready to rock, yeay!!!

Rega_deta

9th October 2014

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The Phase

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Do you remember the day when we were born to this messy-amazing world?
Ah of course… we have the same answer: NO.
We were born as a helpless infant with no ability but crying.

I have no memory about the day I was born about 24 years ago (crap! Am I that old now??) Some said that my existence was a gift for our parents, especially Mom. Then they do their best to grow me up until time, oh God… if I could give the whole universe to them it will never be enough to replace their love for me (*teary eyes). I was a talkative baby and I had amazing movement (well, my Mom told me when I was a kid I could not walk as normal kids did, I always jump and run and in a hurry and ugh…of course too noisy). I was sent to Elementary School, had many good friends and I was quite popular among them, HA! Then in Secondary School, I got my first crush (ah, no no no! I won’t write about my past love story or my puppy love story *try hard to focus on the theme), I got good grades and my parents proud because of it even I joined Math Olympiad (woaaaa… I don’t realize I was that cool!). It was one of best moments that I could present to my beloved parents.  And when I was a Senior High School student, well my score wasn't bad enough that time, however I still could achieve what my Mom wanted from me: be a natural science student and I made it, Yaay! From that stage of live, I got many good friends… FYI we still keep in touch at the present. Friends are more precious than diamond J

Well, the latest education title I got was Undergraduate. Last year I finished it and it was the hardest time of my life. That time I could know the real meaning of “Life is Hard”. I got my job as translator, well… I was student of Educational program, but I dunno why I have no sufficient passion to teach, mihihi… but be a translator gives me good stuff: many new vocabularies and of course, money (admit it, everyone need that paper to make a living muehehee…)

And now, I have to face a new phase in my life. *sigh

No more than a month, I will be a wife of a man. Don’t worry I love that man, so much. I have no worry about our feeling. I remembered, when I was a kid I played as a “housewife” with a husband and some children (my children could be a doll, cat or my friends. Nice.) it was fun to be a wife. Now, in real life… will it as fun as I thought when I was a kid? Who knows? Every woman wants to be a wife, be a good mother for her children and life happily ever after with her new family. I picture my would-be-life is really nice and happy. Sometime I feel so happy, but another time I worry too much: what if I could not be a good wife?

Ah, someone told me over thinking can kill me brutally if I let it grow in my mind. I haven’t known yet. All I can do is just do my best to be what my would-be-husband wants. I have to learn much more about life. I know I will miss my Mom and Dad, so much. But it’s time to fly. *again, teary eyes, hiks…

It’s time to begin, isn't it?
Happily ever after :)

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9th October 2014

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