Every woman
wants perfection in her most special day, what so called wedding party. Special
occasion, special stage of life, and special life partner. Everything is
special and it should be as perfect as possible. But as what I have experienced
so far, there will always be a jerky thing that can disturb and ruin the
preparation, even my mood can be disrupted.
My cousin
(has married) said before the wedding party I have to be happy, no stress, no
bad mood, no depression, no dull skin, no dimples, no messy hair, blablabla… I did
my best to follow her suggestion, but as I said before there will always be
jerky stuff to disarray my sunny day…huft. My married friend told me about her
experience on her wedding preparation, everything went bad and she had many
arguments with her ex-boyfriend (now he is her husband, crystal clearly). What???!
Even my relation with my lover will be ruined? Holly crap, I started to think
wedding is not a good idea (no, actually I’m just kidding of course! :p). Then
one of my besties (she plans to get married next year), shared a story about
wedding disturber, from what I got this ‘creature’ mostly a man. May she is
joking. Me? Have an affair with another man? Hey hey… my history is clear from
disgusting thing like that. Then a crazy thought fly to my mind: what if the
disturber is a woman???? (kyaaaaaa!!! >_<)
See? The preparation
will not run smoothly. Wait, but that’s what those people think. Mine will be
different. I have prepared myself to handle those shitty things, and I will
never let anything disturb my special moment.
Positive thinking,
think positively. It does me good. I ignore what people say as long as what
they say is negative and can bring me a dark-cloudy day. Be positive and
everything’s gonna be ok J
Discuss about
the preparation with would be husband. It is something nice to do, trust me. I shared
my idea with him and he gave the feedback, then we decide together what
conclusion we want to draw. Do everything together can make us closer
emotionally, I love it.
Treat yourself.
Today I went to body spa center and I got amazing treatment for my body. It can
refresh my body and mind. I can forget every troublesome-stuff I have to do
dealing with the preparation, I get my good mood back and I am ready to take
the next step!
Communication
is the key point. Before the wedding, I have to live separately with my
would-be-husband (don’t think conservatively, I have many things to do here and
he has his there, LOL) but we always keep our communication well. Remember, it
doesn’t mean I have to tell him everything I do in details and vice versa, we
just do it and we know we try our best together to be in that special day.
My wedding will
be held no more than two weeks, and I can show the world that my wedding preparation
is doing fine until this time *winkwink. Hopefully my special day will be as
perfect as we want, and after that we’ll be the most awesome couple across the
universe. I’m ready to rock, yeay!!!
Rega_deta
9th
October 2014
2 comments:
selamat ya ga :).samara. sori gabisa dateng. kapan maen ke smg?
makasih bang arko :) gapapa bang yang penting doanya tetep dateng hihii... ne sekarang q uda stay di Semarang kok, sering ke GB juga :)
Posting Komentar