As Sweet as Wedding Cake

Every woman wants perfection in her most special day, what so called wedding party. Special occasion, special stage of life, and special life partner. Everything is special and it should be as perfect as possible. But as what I have experienced so far, there will always be a jerky thing that can disturb and ruin the preparation, even my mood can be disrupted.

My cousin (has married) said before the wedding party I have to be happy, no stress, no bad mood, no depression, no dull skin, no dimples, no messy hair, blablabla… I did my best to follow her suggestion, but as I said before there will always be jerky stuff to disarray my sunny day…huft. My married friend told me about her experience on her wedding preparation, everything went bad and she had many arguments with her ex-boyfriend (now he is her husband, crystal clearly). What???! Even my relation with my lover will be ruined? Holly crap, I started to think wedding is not a good idea (no, actually I’m just kidding of course! :p). Then one of my besties (she plans to get married next year), shared a story about wedding disturber, from what I got this ‘creature’ mostly a man. May she is joking. Me? Have an affair with another man? Hey hey… my history is clear from disgusting thing like that. Then a crazy thought fly to my mind: what if the disturber is a woman???? (kyaaaaaa!!! >_<)

See? The preparation will not run smoothly. Wait, but that’s what those people think. Mine will be different. I have prepared myself to handle those shitty things, and I will never let anything disturb my special moment.

Positive thinking, think positively. It does me good. I ignore what people say as long as what they say is negative and can bring me a dark-cloudy day. Be positive and everything’s gonna be ok J

Discuss about the preparation with would be husband. It is something nice to do, trust me. I shared my idea with him and he gave the feedback, then we decide together what conclusion we want to draw. Do everything together can make us closer emotionally, I love it.

Treat yourself. Today I went to body spa center and I got amazing treatment for my body. It can refresh my body and mind. I can forget every troublesome-stuff I have to do dealing with the preparation, I get my good mood back and I am ready to take the next step!

Communication is the key point. Before the wedding, I have to live separately with my would-be-husband (don’t think conservatively, I have many things to do here and he has his there, LOL) but we always keep our communication well. Remember, it doesn’t mean I have to tell him everything I do in details and vice versa, we just do it and we know we try our best together to be in that special day.

My wedding will be held no more than two weeks, and I can show the world that my wedding preparation is doing fine until this time *winkwink. Hopefully my special day will be as perfect as we want, and after that we’ll be the most awesome couple across the universe. I’m ready to rock, yeay!!!

Rega_deta

9^th October 2014