Get the Real Life

I find it’s hard to find what so called “social real life” nowadays. Unfortunately, it happened to me, and I didn’t like it at all. I was addicted to social media in the internet, I surfed there almost every day and I rarely met people directly. It became worse and worse, until someday I realized it was not good for me. I have to do something to get rid of this bad behavior. I have to Get the Real Life. I live in social world, the real one not in a social media world, I am human and supposed to be socialized. I know it is too fun to browse whatever we want in the internet, and we are also able to make friends with some strangers from around the world. But we don’t realize that slowly we are lost our social and real life.

You meet your friend, face to face in the same place but don’t have something interesting to be discussed then each of you just plays gadget (it could be internet, game or socmed) and keep silent. Have you ever been in that situation? That’s too bad guys… if you’re addicted to cyber world it can “turn” you become a passive person in real life.

From now on, just try to sign out from cyber world for a while and meet people, it can be your family, friends, neighbor or someone new. Make an interesting conversation, go for a walk in the park or hang out together (but remember, do not use your gadget unless for important purpose). Traveling will be a good idea to be done (do it by yourself or with your family and friends). You can refresh your mind, enjoy the new place directly (you can feel it by yourself), meet new people, and get adventure experience. Just try to be socialized mate, have fun with your real friends not cyber friends.

I tried to do it. Indeed, in advance it felt so hard, but I had to push myself harder and my effort was not fruitless. I tell you the truth, the real life is so much better than what you can get/ browse from the internet. Use internet wisely, but don’t ever let that stuff takes your real life away. It’s too precious to be taken from you.

by: rega_deta